My wife, Nikki and I were 23 years into our marriage with two teenaged children when she discovered an affair. Over the coming months she discovered another 22 affairs which stretched throughout our entire marriage, and she realised that she had no idea who I was!
At that point, wracked with shame, I didn't know how to help Nikki with her devastating pain and since I really wanted to save our marriage and overcome my own sex addiction, I set about finding us the help we needed.